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Dating Tips
Little Known Dating Tips, Secrets
and Dating Mistakes
by John Alanis
I hear it over and over—“It was going
so great, and then she disappeared on me… why?
What happened—we were having such a great time
together. I’m tired of this happening—I
want to date sexy women, but I want them to stick
around. Do you have any dating tips for me?”
Yes, I do. Every time I talk to a guy who tells
me this, I discover he’s making the exact same
mistakes most guys do, dating mistakes that kill
his chances of successfully dating sexy women. So,
I give him some dating tips to skyrocket his success
with sexy women. Here are the most common ones:
Dating tip #1: Don’t date. Yes, that’s
right—don’t date. Think about a traditional
“date”—it’s full of pressure,
awkwardness, evaluation and it just plain sucks.
What do you do on a “traditional date?”
Dinner, movie, kiss goodnight, she doesn’t
return your calls. Or you have drinks, and try to
“make your move,” and we all know where
that ends up. Much better (and cheaper) to meet
for coffee—it’s fun and relaxed with none
of the normal dating expectations.
Dating tip #2: The less you do and say, the more
she’s attracted to you. Most guys try to impress
sexy women, or “lay a rap” on them. Sexy
women have heard it all before. But, if you ask
her about herself, shut up and listen, and display
a SMALL degree of interest, she’ll begin to
wonder why you’re not slobbering all over her.
She’ll want to discover more… now you’re
a challenge, and sexy women love challenging guys.
Why? Because they rarely meet one. This is a HUGE
dating tip.
Dating tip #3 Be a “naughty little boy.”
Another big dating tip. Remember the “class
clown” in elementary school—the guy who
was “cool and funny” all at the same time?
When you’re talking to sexy women, make unexpected
and mischievous comments, the kind that leave them
thinking, “I can’t believe he just said
that… but I like it.” This shows sexy
women you’re NOT impressed by their looks,
that you need to see more. This is so different
from what they’re used to they can’t help
but be attracted. I cannot emphasize the importance
of this dating tip.
Dating tip #4 Avoid all canned pick up lines, “laying
a rap,” or any type of “acting.”
Sexy women have heard it all before, and as soon
as you spout one, you’re instantly a JAG (just
another guy). And JAG’s don’t get sexy
women—remember this dating tip!
Dating tip #5 Sexy women are approached and hit
on 20 to 30 times a day. This is their world—to
get into it, you have to be different from the 20
guys who’ve already talked to her. (see Dating
tip #3 for how to be different to sexy women).
Dating tip #6 Look out for her tests. Sexy women
(indeed, all women) will test you to see if you’ll
stand up to them. If you can’t stand up to
her, you can’t stand up for her. If she asks
you to buy her things, that’s a test—and
a perfect opportunity to be a “naughty little
boy” (see Dating tip #3). Say something like,
“What do I look like an ATM machine? You should
buy ME something, just for the privilege of spending
time with me. I like sexy women who buy me things!”
This is said in a playful—yet firm—manner
that lets her know you’re onto her. When you
pass their tests, it drives sexy women wild with
desire. Very important dating tip.
Dating tip #7 Date multiple sexy women at once,
and make sure the others know about it. Sexy women
love a man who is attractive to other sexy women,
and will compete to “win you.” (Here’s
another dating tip: for proof of this, read any
good romance novel). If you want to settle down,
you can choose one, but she will always know you’re
desired by other sexy women—and in a strange
way, this creates even more attraction for you.
This dating tip really is a secret, but it works
very well with sexy women.
OK, guys, that’s it for this article. Obviously
there are lots of other dating tips, tricks and
secrets to put to use, but if you pay attention
to these dating tips, you’ll be a heckuva lot
more successful with sexy women. Now, go re-read
all the dating tips!
On with the fun…
-John Alanis, Dating Tips Master
“The King of Let ‘em Come to You”
Want more dating tips? To discover how to be successful
with sexy women, and for more great dating tips,
see www.womenapproachyou.com.
About The Author
John Alanis is the author of “Secrets of Natural
Attraction: How to Get Desirable, Beautiful Sexy
women to Chase You.” He also publishes a daily
“politically incorrect attraction and dating
tips” newsletter that reveals how to get desirable,
beautiful sexy women to approach men for a date
first, no matter your looks, age or income. You
can subscribe to John’s daily “sexy women
approach you secrets” by going to www.womenapproachyou.com.
Upon subscription, John immediately sends you five
free “how to get beautiful, sexy women to approach
you!” reports, chock full of “hidden secrets”
dating tips. |
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